Quoting putter:...I hope that I can one day get to where you are even though it seems impossible.
At one time it felt impossible to me that my W and I would be where we are today. Right now things are better than I ever imagined.
We are communicating like never before. Our feelings are coming out and at times we don't even know where they're coming from. We are both 110% committed to our M and our future togehter never looked better.
I asked my W to read chapter 10 in DR (Infidelity) so she could get a better idea of what we both need to do to overcome that obsticle in our M. She happily agreed and immediately went off by herself to read it. When I got home from work I walked in to a romantic candlelight dinner. After dinner, my W knelt in front of me and apologized for having the PA and promised it would never happen again. She said that it never occured to her that she needed to express this to me and she gave thanks to Michele and DR for showing her the way.
Michele, if you're reading this, my W LOVES your writing style! She is so impressed with the way you get right to the point without all the physco-babble.
I explained the whole DB process to my W and she got a chuckle out of the theory of WAS's being abducted by aliens. My W now wants to read the entire DR book to see what all this "alien" talk is about.
Our old M is being placed behind us now and our new M is beginning to take shape. I haven't felt this happy or excited in my entire 48 years of life. I guess the feeling would be almost idendical to when I saw my DD being born 24 years ago. This is the start of a new life.
- Mark
What goes around, comes around.
My sitch: "Third time's a charm?"
