I don't know what to do, I came home from softball game, W dressed up very nice to go out. I was talking to the kids, and I was told that mommy left them at a park by themselves.
I called W and asked her WTF (I didn't say that) I said I want to hear what actually happened. she laughed, and she told me she left the kids for approx 6 minutes, while (she hesitated) she dropped of some charity clothing.
Jeff, it's obvious that you don't think by your comments about her clothing that she was actually dropping off the clothing, but something else. If she actually left her kids alone to be with OM I think that is horrible. And I am also disbelieving that it was 6 minutes-maybe 36 minutes or 56 minutes or something like that, b/c if it was truly 6 minutes at the park I don't believe your kids would have been so worried and told you about it. Maybe your W was planning on 6 minutes and then it turned into longer than that. But you are right, even 6 minutes isn't tolerable. I agree with everything Kat said too. I am so sorry, but I think your W does sound too unstable to watch the kids at this time. I would worry more about protecting the kids now and worry about divorce issues later. You know we all care about you, Jeff!!! karen
I'm not going to name any names here, but Jeff there has been a poster on this very forum within the past few months who learned that his wayward wife had sex in the front seat of their family car, while their toddler child slept in the car seat not two feet away from them. I am constantly HORRIFIED to learn what people in affairs will do, and you all know by now my favorite example of the otherwise intelligent and sane adult female astronaut who drove cross-country WEARING AN ADULT DIAPER to go challenge her lover's OW.
Jeff, your wife needs help. Please treat this incident with the seriousness that it deserves!
