I got off work and stopped at sandwich shop to grab a bite to eat. As I eating I saw a car that looked like my W go by and was turning in the general direction of our house. I finished my sandwich and headed home. I guess it was, cause the mail was inside. I think she was just checking to see if she had got anything in the mail and maybe getting something else, I don't know. It kinda bothers me that she doesn't call ahead or let me know anything at all, that fact that she may come and go whenever to do whatever. Since we have been apart for the past two and half months I have mentioned calling her. She said a couple times a week would be ok for now, however I haven't called her. Yesterday I thought about calling her, but decided to wait since she was out of town at a friends birthday party. So I thought I would call today just to ask her "How was your day?", "How was the birthday party?", just a few general conversation points, nothing big or about our R. Thought I might call around 9:30 and keep call to about 5 min and then tell her I have to go. Also about her coming by the house, I wasn't going to mention that to her, the reason being I don't want to put my hands in that sitch like I am trying to FIX things. I was wondering if I should just let that roll off my back. I will say that when I noticed she came by that I was super close to calling her then about that, but I decided to give myself some time to calm down and collect my thoughts. One other point about calling: Makes me think if I should or wait further for more of her lead. I will say that she has called a few times, but if I remember correctly it was when she needed to find out some general info or needed something. She has asked how my day was in a couple calls.
Anyway I would appreciate your thoughts Sandi, or anyone else who would like to comment on my current sitch.
