Because her goal is to get us where we can be the best parents we can. In her opinion, one parent who looks at themselves like they are a victim makes the divorce even harder on the kids. She made it perfectly clear she doesn't think divorce is an answer when kids are involved.

I'm sure my husband will hit reality at some point. But I don't want him to drag the kids down even further when he does. I guess my personal hope is for some personal hell for himself and no more for the rest of us!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.