It's good to know your love language, but what you really want is to know your WIFES. If her love language is say "acts of service" and you go around trying to fulfill the language of "physical touch" you're going to be WAY OFF base, and NOT speaking her love language. I am "words of affirmation". I need that to feel loved more than I need all the others. My h's is "acts of service". He feels loved when I do things for him. He can fulfill ALL the other love languages, but if he doesn't use MY LL (words of affirmation) I don't feel loved. Get it? It's a good book.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."