My W and I had our talk on Thursday as planned and here's what we came up with.

1. Proceed slowly and with caution.
2. Be 100% open and honest with each other and ourselves.
3. Define ourselves and each other(how I see myself as a person...how I see my W as person and vice-versa)
4. Define who we want to become and what changes we want to make in ourselves.
5. Read "The Five Love Languages" and learn to love each other as BF/GF.
6. Read "Getting Back Together" and follow the course of actions, step by step.
7. Continue to work on ourselves and deal with our personal issues in life.
8. Welcome any "bumps in the road" as a way of learning and growing.
9. Continue to live apart until we both feel the time is right for living as H & W again.

At this point, I feel 99.9% confident that my W and I will be reunited and living togerther again by the end of the year. Neither of us are in a hurry to end our separation as we are both comforatble and secure in our current sitch. We both are enjoying some of this alone time and we'll find a way to carry this over into our M.

We are once again talking about a new future together. The goals and dreams haven't changed much, but my W and I will become two new individuals who can unite into a M where those dreams can become a reality.

Later tonight I'll post details about our weekend together. For now I'll just say that my love tank is overflowing and I'm falling in love with a new woman.

- Mark What goes around, comes around. My sitch: "Third time's a charm?"