update: H and I spoke casually yesterday as we got an offer accepted on our cabin or sale I let him make all the decisions about it..we talked for 8 minutes- very short- he seemed like he wanted to jump off the phone.
i was ok with it
my DB coach had said to act like casual friends ......so i texted him today to meet for lunch...i said no biggie if u cant...i was very casual.
he replied shortly and said workin. sorry and sent a picture of his new ride at work (police)....
it was so cool! he really took an effort to reply and show me how excited he is w work...i replied with a very happy text and said i was so happy for him...
so now the ball is in his court f he wants to "hang out"...
VERY CASUAL...i wanted to take the pressure off him bc of our HUGE talk last week.
i dont want him to think that we have to have a HUGE R talk...bc i actually dont
anyway- i really felt PMA and like he was being nice and friendly.
BABY STEPS
on the up and up!
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese