Thanks, cat. I do feel bad for him...spoke with my IC today, and she reminded me that S will be going through some similar shaking-up of what reality is for him, now that he knows the truth. And to not be surprised if he even gets angry at me, for "letting it happen," or not telling him earlier, etc. She is glad that he is seeing his own IC next week.

Speaking of which, I got the earliest appt for next Wed. So I'll just be available to him until then, not push anything. S went to Six Flags today with his church youth group, and I'm glad he had happier things to focus on. He was excited and nervous to go on his first rollercoaster. Both kids are with x now for dinner, so I have some time to catch up with everyone.