Wellllllllll....based upon the info that you go to vegas with a group of guys and other trips, and that fact that it was her resolution, I see nothing wrong with her going on trips. YOu should tell her how you feel about the "dancing with other guys", etc. It's all up to you, but it is playing with fire if there are problems. Up until I had problems, I was able to do the same thing and would NEVER have dreamed of going "across the line". EVER!!!!! It's all about putting yourself in situations...if you affair proof your marriage you avoid those types of situations. Any book would say so.
