Toto I don't think we're in Kansas anymore!

[fig]

I would have left his happyassed name on the card

prick

[*KS*Chick*]

I had to protect myself though. I'm just so irked!

The only good thing out of dealing with him yesterday is we have a set day during the week that he gets Peanut.

Everything else is horsesh*t.

BTW did I tell you that he keeps talking about how he's changed (most of the time while his GF is in his truck @ the end of the driveway) and how he does love me, etc. but I won't let him show me he's changed.


Here's the deal my friend: IF you had changed, you would be alone. You would be doing things to SHOW me I was important to you.

You're not.

IF you had changed, you wouldn't talk to me about reconciling, keeping her in the back ground in CASE.

You're not.


I CALL BS!

Now - have a great Wednesday

[AmyC]

I would have left his happyassed name on the card

prick

Dang, that fig is a dainty lil thang, ain't she?

[*KS*Chick*]

very much so!

And welcome back Amy

[Trip]

I sure can relate to some of that stuff about your H. Mine would do and say the same BS. I've changed my ways, removed myself from certain sites, etc. Meantime he has done d!ck! Like I am to be fooled over and over again? I don't think so!

[fig]

mine is still just a sociopath...

but working at mcdonalds

(where is that dayum rolling on the floor laughing guy)

[AmyC]

I think that's a requirement for working at McDonalds, Fig.

At least it is in my neck o' the woods!


LOL!

[*KS*Chick*]

Almost 1 year ago the D was final. How weird. On one hand, I feel content. Peanut and I are great. And I've had my eyes opened to the man I was married to.

On the other, it's still kind of sad and I feel like a failure at times. Some of my friends don't understand.

Then there is the trust factor. I don't trust. I don't believe there are too many good guys out there, and if they are, they are taken or related to me LOL! So as of right now, I'm resigned to solitude. Can I be a nun?

[*KS*Chick*]

So I get a phone call from DW (for an explanation see AT&T commercial with the guy @ the pool hall...)

When I signed Peanut up for summer day care, I needed ALL vacation dates. If you give them the dates ahead of time, you have 2 weeks that are "free". Otherwise you are SOL.

So I give her the dates I had and the dates DW gave me. Then his vacation got switched. He still would like to have Peanut that week (nights too - I hope not!) and I said ok, are you going to pay half the day care?

Well I can see what I can do...since it's partly my fault. How much is it?

$130 a week.

"Oh maybe I could pay half."

"you know what, never mind - just forget it - I'll eat the cost."

"well what $50 a month is figured into child support for day care......" (Really he was going there?!!!!!!!! $50! A MONTH! It's $130 a WEEK ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHOLE.......)

I said I am sent $384 a month. Just never mind. I'll eat the cost.

So he's decided he will try to send a check for $130 to cover that week.




Again - I said just forget it.


No, I'll get you a check or something...

[Lissie]

Blech.

Oh Chick. One day all these weird things will fall into place and it will be smoothe sailig.

But not to smoothe, we can never take things for granted again.

Kisses to the peanut, hope you guys are enjoying your summer.