Just to play devil's advocate a little more - if you work very hard to protect yourself and it turns out you didn't need to go that far, what's the harm?
Rob, you are right. I do need to do what I can to protect myself. I'll do what I can. I don't want to have to depend on anyone else by myself for what D4 and I need. Hopefully H will step up and give his fair share. I can guarantee though that whatever his fair share is, won't seem fair to him. Money spent on partying, concerts...etc. is okay but money spent on anything....it's like pulling teeth to get him to put it out. I remember years ago him complaining about the price of a 6-pack going up. I told him that he never has a problem paying for several beers at a concert. But if he'd just stop to think about it, he'd see that he could have friends over for a nice BBQ and beers with the money he spends for drinking at a concert.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
