What if she goes? What is she doesn't go? Will it make a difference in what you do or how you act? Have fun is what you do. Be happy, but not hyper-happy. Maybe give her a compliment, but don't cling to her.
your right, i will have fun regardless... normally i never danced, because i was always too worried what people would think... not anymore.. I can say something like " you look nice " eh?
Red, did you pick up Divorce Remedy yet? You REALLY need to read it. Another one I think you need is the "5 love languages". Once you know your wifes "love language" you can know how to show her love.
Hi ladybug, i ordered DR at the book store here, there were none in stock in the whole city (hard to believe), i am very anxious for it to arrive... DB should be in the mailbox soon (hopefully the W doesn't get the mail that day)
as for 5 love languages ... i am totally not familair with it...
What if she goes? What is she doesn't go? Will it make a difference in what you do or how you act? Have fun is what you do. Be happy, but not hyper-happy. Maybe give her a compliment, but don't cling to her.
And yes, i will have fun regardless.. i was worried about awkwardness... i'll just be myself, the happy guy i am..
if she comes i'll give her a compliment.. if she doesn't .. i'll compliment myself
It's good to know your love language, but what you really want is to know your WIFES. If her love language is say "acts of service" and you go around trying to fulfill the language of "physical touch" you're going to be WAY OFF base, and NOT speaking her love language. I am "words of affirmation". I need that to feel loved more than I need all the others. My h's is "acts of service". He feels loved when I do things for him. He can fulfill ALL the other love languages, but if he doesn't use MY LL (words of affirmation) I don't feel loved. Get it? It's a good book.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
It's good to know your love language, but what you really want is to know your WIFES. If her love language is say "acts of service" and you go around trying to fulfill the language of "physical touch" you're going to be WAY OFF base, and NOT speaking her love language. I am "words of affirmation". I need that to feel loved more than I need all the others. My h's is "acts of service". He feels loved when I do things for him. He can fulfill ALL the other love languages, but if he doesn't use MY LL (words of affirmation) I don't feel loved. Get it? It's a good book.
Yep got it.. i will have a read... btw didn't call the W all day and guess who called me to tell me she was going to the gym.
So as for tomorrow, am i ok to dance with anyone there if W is around or is that forbidden? I love W, but i want to have fun, and i am not dancing with the men LOL
So as for tomorrow, am i ok to dance with anyone there if W is around or is that forbidden? I love W, but i want to have fun, and i am not dancing with the men LOL
So as for tomorrow, am i ok to dance with anyone there if W is around or is that forbidden? I love W, but i want to have fun, and i am not dancing with the men LOL
Gosh hard one. I don't know. I'd worry that it would look too "obvious" that you were trying to get her attention, and backfire, even if that is not what you'd be intending. I don't know. Are there "safe" people to dance with that would be there that wouldn't necessarily make her jealous (people she wouldn't be threatened by) but still give you the opportunity to dance, have fun, and for her to see you having fun and getting out there?
I don't think I'd necessarily be asking the hot girl in the room to dance in front of your wife. LOL
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
