Fair enough.... just remember, that the best way to avoid not continuing to go back where you were before, is to not do the same things you did before, and do more positive things for your relationship instead. Sounds like you've got a good start there chin up.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
chin up.