Red, did you pick up Divorce Remedy yet? You REALLY need to read it. Another one I think you need is the "5 love languages". Once you know your wifes "love language" you can know how to show her love.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."