Wow, there are a lot of us police wives. I even brought up that connection with him ,and he is adament NONE of this has to do with his job. Which I KNOW we had real other issues ,but the change in the person he is most definitely has to do with his job.
He was the optimist, always saw the good in anybody, mr. friendly. Now he's much more a pessimest, thinks people suck, and looks for the bad.
Yep. That job will change a person whether or not they want it to.
You're doing BETTER in your interactions with him. Somehow, he need to suck it up when he's around. No crying. No complaining. Plan to do something this weekend while the girls are away. If you stay home, you'll focus on how quiet the house is, and how lonely you are. Go out with some friends. Have a scrapbooking night at a friends house, just do SOMETHING.
Wishing you the best.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
