Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[SueS]

I felt the same thing that you both (Saffie & Rob) mentioned above. That H is looking for pity & that he's not realizing that he did this. He's looking for someone to say, Oh honey, what can I do to help you. How can I make this better for you. Things I used to do. God didn't have anything to do with it. And with the car, well trust me, he could have had that fixed long ago. He KNEW it needed work. He had his uncle work on it back in Jan. & his uncle told him that a few other things needed to be seriously looked at. I know he's trying to put this back on me. He asked ME last night what my problem was. I didn't really react to his come ons and he got mad at me.

As far as the draining of accounts or sticking me with his car. Well, I know my H is a ba$tard sometimes, but I would be absolutely floored if he did that. I know that may sound strange to some of you and you're probably thinking...Now Sue, don't underestimate the WAS. I know he doesn't want the responsibility of the van. Yes it runs better, but the car has no payment attached. It's paid off. The van has a couple of years of payments left on it. There's a lot of things that I think he would do, but doing something that would obviously harm D4 isn't something that he'd do. I know his drinking and a divorce is harm, but he doesn't see those things that way. Now leaving me high & dry would and he knows that. Now I can see him leaving and me getting little to no help from him, but he wouldn't take everything on top of all that. Any of that make sense?

Maybe H is also in a SUPER PI$$Y mood because it's his birthday today and he can't spend it out drinking or with OW.

SueS