Quoting shinybear: What I have a harder time with is the LIES. Not just covering the A's, but the lies told to OW about our M, about ME (for example that I'D cheated on HIM! ).
Also tough for me is the cruel treatment CJ put me through during that time...making it out to be ALL my fault. Being made to feel like an unwitting MONSTER.
I hear ya...but to me, this is part of the affair...it's not just the interaction with the other person but the whole lying/meanness/you must be the problem thingy.
Yah, thingy, that's it.
Sage
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