Wow! ok, unfortunately grouchy explosion from him, but... you're officially "working on things" now ? !!
that's a huge jump from "he's filing", to "we're working on things".... did I miss a post somewhere?
That's fantanstic!
(also... if you 're right about your guess about him only wanting you to mow, to know how difficult it is without him... Stop being so durn "I can do it!" attitude, and go the other way... Tell him, that you HATE doing the lawn, and how much you MISS him doing the lawn.... )
(and for gosh sakes if he comes over while you're doing it, and somehow offers to do it... let him?!!! )
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle