I am a WAW of 4 months. My question is how to handle the issue of sex with my LBS. The last time we were together (2 weeks ago) he initiated it but I declined. I am still so terribly confused about what it is that I want to do (re: going home or not) and I don't want to complicate matters any further. H is still hurting so much and I don't want to do anything that is going to hurt him even more. Yet I can't help but wonder if engaging in sex with H might bring us closer together. How have other walk-away spouses dealt with this issue?
Me (WAW) 30 H (LBS) 31 T since 6/10/1994 M 8/8/98 No kids S 3/10/08 D filed 6/9/08; put on hold 7/14/08 D finalized 10/13/08