Well about the lyrics, I AM relieved. I would hope your W is past THAT stage of denial (CJ was still "with" OW when he claimed ignorance of those lyrics).
And since she didn't pick it out, I'll bet it was her way of communicating to you that she's GETTING some of this now, seeing it from your side? Wait a minute though...I know that song and it kind of makes it seem like she sold out for money in her M and SHOULD be stepping out???
About the bar thing, I guess it makes more sense now. I'd be flattered if I were you. She wants to make a show of unity for the two of you...is that right? Or is it more about saving face for HER?
Go with YOUR gut on this one, don't do anything if you'll be uncomfortable or might punch this guy out.(ask SAD about THAT...where are those two??? ).
On the other hand, Talista has the best "showing the OP what's what" story of all time!! I'm sure you recall the Tourette's sting?
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