Hey SB. Hmmm...

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Jethro...if your W is in La La land to any degree similar to my H...she may have the same excuse...
It's not that she doesn't realize the lyrics...she REALLY realized the lyrics and that's why she was giving me pointed looks. Someone asked her to sing that song anyway, so it wasn't her idea. In fact, she went as far to say that there we a lot of interesting things in that song that are true about people having As...and she's right... It just bugged to hear the lyrics...

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"The anxiety and phobia workbook" by Edmund Bourne.
She did buy a book to help her out. It's huge. I wonder if it's the same one???

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About the "show up" at the bar where OM hangs? What's up with that??? What does she hope to accomplish? what are the rumors? that she's dead? gained 100 pounds? That you've kicked her to the curb?

I guess I just don't get it. It sounds kind of juvenile to me.

Now having said that...ewww if I had the opportunity to rub it in OW's face that CJ and I are intact and thriving despite her interference.....
Well, I can't REALLY explain why she wants to go. I think it's a combination of things, albeit odd. I think it's to show people that I haven't "kicked her to the curb," and I think it's also to rub OM's face in our reconciliation. About a month ago, she admitted that she had a tiny, little, weincy (sp?) part of her that wanted me to pummel OM. So, maybe there's a sense of wanting to watch him squirm? I don't know, SB. I think maybe I'll ask her about it tonight, 'cuz it does seem juvenile. The best answer I can get out of her is that she wants to prove to people that she's on the "right track" after her poor behavior. Of course, this is based on her thinking rumors are going around about her and OM. Ahhh...heck...I don't know...

BTW, the e-mail exchanges you're having with your H are fantastic. I was so very happy to share your news!

Thanks,
jethro