Yes always two sides and the extremes! Strange but I was just thinking that I really should stop reading new posts I sort of get hooked into some and now I find that I am thinking the unthinkable which is I actually feel sorry for the spouse and not the poster.
Maybe its just another sign of the boards changing. Friction and groupies abound.I,ve never been much good as a sheep.
My neighbours are having problems and dispite the years I dbed I find myself thinking let him go and get on with your life don't wait years. I don't say any of this just try to console and listen and lend my support and help whenever I can.
Your friends are lucky to have you in their lives. Why is it so complicated.
If there wasn,t just me and my pets I think I might have my own MLC, but who would notice.