I really do not buy into the falling out of love, or just do not comprehend it.
To me love grows, when I see my parents 50+ years married and inseparable.
Ok, if I can be convined that people can fall out of love, then what I do not understand, when all through this you are there as a friend, is the hatred and non communication, especialy when there are children involved.
Lets face it, we send people birthday and christmas cards and communicate to/with friends, who we do not love per se.
Why oh why, the animosity, when you have been friends and partners for 30+ years (as in my case)