Then if that goes well at lunch, have another plan for in the morning since i get to take S6 to daycare them drop off D2 at Ws! Play it by ear and see what C thinks.
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful
I hope your W is the type that likes surprises like that and won't be put off by it. Remember you do not want to apply anything that could be interpreted as pressure to your W. And also (as hard as it is to grasp)you are not in any kind of urgent time crunch pressure cooker. It just seems that way. Give everything careful consideration and do your absolute best to let God direct you as to what to do.
Got book, flower, show up at Ws work, text 2 meet, she says where, i say lobby. Get text bout she went home sick, thought u new since u asked 2 meet, u should have called. funny how extremely well W was this morning. Living on lies or what?
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful
It sure seems that presently you are attempting to reach out to someone who does not want you reaching out to them. I know that this is a deflating and difficult thing to process. But process it you must.
I was a bit surprised that you were about to take that step to stop by and surprise her but I just figured that you felt that she would welcome you in doing that. For now anyway you have learned a lesson. If you don't know how already, you need to get schooled on detaching and get to it.
It saddens me that you are feeling the rejection that I know you are. Do not let it push you to anger but instead get to work on you. You were trying to work on her and to appeal to her. She wants nothing to do with that. Work on you and begin to learn how to detach.
If you got any Q's many of us on here can help you get to firm and stable ground. Don't hesitate to ask. This is no sprint it is a marathon. Stay in the race. Run it smart. Jesus loves you brother. Peace and blessings to you.
No I wasnt angry or nothing at all. I think it would have been a good thing. We texted a bit back and forth after that. Said she saw my mom today. I replied its ok guess it could have waited. If you need anything you know how to get a hold of me. Sorry you are sick:( She said What could have waited? Soemthing you want to talk to me about? Why dont you come over after I take a nap? or meet me somewhere? and then something about "Or i could come over when they go to bed" (score) Said its my moms birthday. So wife replied, "aw, i feel bad, i didnt tell her happy bday. she went on about how much weight id lost. she was really nice"
Then W sends "Just tell me, is it bad u want to talk to me about?" My sis said just let it eat at her. So I will run this by C this much more that has gone on and go from there. I think its kinda positive everything that has gone on, havent cried yet but know I will at C.
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful
