it used to be : long weekend, oh i am going to go out with my buddies and drink a ton of beer and smoke 1,000 cigarettes.. now i am doing exact opposite.. in fact i limit myself to 2 beer max now (that way i can always drive home)..
Errr... the "exact opposite" would be, "NOT going out with your buddies, NOT smoking, and NOT drinking".
Sounds like you are still going out with your buddies, and still drinking. Just "less".
I'm not writing this just to pick on you. I'm writing this, so you look at what you are doing, honestly and with open eyes. You may choose to fool yourself, but you wont fool your wife. So, best not to fool yourself to start with, yeah?
you also didnt mention anything about smoking either. Are you "only" smoking one or two now when you go out?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
