Tonight is the first time H and I will be seeing each other in over 2 weeks. I finally convinced him that if we want to see if we really have a chance of making it, we actually have to spend some time together to see whether or not there is still something there. I'm hoping things go well and I walk away with at least a little clarity...
Hi Lost,
I'm really happy for you! Don't expect everything to get solved in a night, though. In fact, it might be better to not try and solve anything. After all the raw emotions, maybe you should just spend some time together and reconnect as friends a little before you think about the R. When my W wanted to reapproach the M, she thought the only way to do so would be to move back in together to see if it'd work or not. Bad move.
You have to give it time and patience and slow baby steps to get over the hurt you both feel. I don't think either of you is in the proper emotional state right now to judge whether there is "still something there" or not.
