I know that in my sitch is that W and I do care very highly about our kids' welfare and that we are greatly in sync when dealing with them - so it is a positive that the two of you appear to be as well. Perhaps that is why we're still in the same house even though sleeping in different bedrooms. Maybe something interesting in the news will appear that you know W sees as important and you can use that as a testing point.
Have you given any thought of having alone time this weekend - even if it is just to run an errand while W watches the kids?
Oooo - another quick thought. There was a long time poster ANS (Andy) who still is in pretty much the same boat we are. His old hangout (as well as mine back in the day) was in Piecing and he checks in from time to time. If you have the time, it may be worthwhile to read back through some of his threads...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
