Over the years we've been married (almost 19) I've had the opportunity to go on many "girl trips" with both single and married girlfriends-- and all the changes they went through in between.
Some of my fondest memories and strongest bonds were built on those trips and never once did I even consider for a second hooking up with another man on those trips. One of the girls passed away a few years ago... had I missed one of the trips...
I am so thankful my H trusted me and allowed me the space to create memories with the women who stuck by me when I needed them later. I'm thankful I'm but a flight away from reconnecting with them again since we had to leave the area I made those lasting friendships.
You wrote that you are the one with the anxiety and "overreacting"... and that you are closer than ever. I would be crushed if my H didn't trust me and extremely resentful if suddenly I wasn't "allowed" to go away with the girls because of it. I would seriously consider exploring why you don't trust her anymore when you are "allowed" to go on "guy vacations".
