Officially Here Now

[7 Year Itch]

Coming back to ad some "pluses" from yesterday with H.

I think after each talk or in person meeting I'll try to write those in here. I am trying to get more in the habit of taking it day by day, instead of focussing on the long term goal of reconciliation. Perhaps if I can focus on the little positives, -it'll help me to stay positive, and not have my feelings turn for him which is somthing I worry about this as it goes on.

Positives from MOnday and Tuesday:

-We ML
-He acknowledged that he puts me on the defensive when he "accuses" me of stuff (like the comment about my interactions with the girls in the last year, and realized that he has to give me a chance to respond to be fair)
-He brought up the trash can from the end of the driveway last night even when I told him not to worry about it, that I'd get it tomorrow
-HE offered me some of the dinner he had bought for him and the girls last night (has to do his week night visitation here due to his work schedule and how far he is staying from us right now)

Chris