Trying Hard to Detach

[addie]

Eagle, you sound so strong eventhough your D may be final in a couple of months.
Your W is still very much in a fog. I don't know that she is "in love" with OM but rather in the midst of the euphoric phase of the A but why wouldn't she be - he sounds like the answer to every woman's dream:

Ex HS Boyfriend that is 8 years older, twice divorced (2nd in Dec)and unemployed.

Sorry about the sarcasm above but it never ceases to amaze me how in sitch upon sitch, the WAS is so willing to throw away a M/family for someone obviously dysfunctional.
Eagle, you will get through this!!! I am glad you are getting what you want in the D.