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Hello Ted

Glad to hear that things are pretty well nice and friendly between you & W. I hope that you continue to be blessed in that way. Peace to all your family.

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Hey tomato thanks for stopping by. All is friendly between us but is it the calm before the storm? I wish I knew what she was doing, but instead of thinking about it I keep myself busy otherwise what sanity I have left would be thrown out the window. If I get nothing out of this but a friendship I have come to accept that but of course I want more otherwise I would not be here!

I am going to go get my S now but when I get time I will stop by your thread.


Stay strong!


Ted


I am-33
W- 33
Married- 8yrs
T- 12yrs
D15
S6
Seperated 3/23/08(not legally)

"dum vita est, spes est"




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You sound much better.

And I like your attitude. She's a sexy, attractive woman and you are bound and determined to win her heart. No room for fear and hesitation.

Keep your wits about you and you'll be fine.


Bill


P.S. Very nice response to her concern about the DUI.


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Hey Bill good to see ya again, thanks for stopping by.


I am-33
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Married- 8yrs
T- 12yrs
D15
S6
Seperated 3/23/08(not legally)

"dum vita est, spes est"




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Hi Jonzy!

Got your note. \:\) My computer was on the fritz but I think I killed the bad bugs. lol

I'm so glad to hear you two went out to dinner and that the rapport is comfortable and harmonious!!!

Keep us updated. \:\)

Tink


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Hi Tink, glad all is good on your end!

I think this weekend I am going to ask my wife out for a friendly social drink. What are your thoughts on this?

I am hoping she will accept but I am expecting her to say no, my expectations are at 0 right now but it does not hurt to try, right?


I am-33
W- 33
Married- 8yrs
T- 12yrs
D15
S6
Seperated 3/23/08(not legally)

"dum vita est, spes est"




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Originally Posted By: jonzy
Hi Tink, glad all is good on your end!

I think this weekend I am going to ask my wife out for a friendly social drink. What are your thoughts on this?

I am hoping she will accept but I am expecting her to say no, my expectations are at 0 right now but it does not hurt to try, right?


Hi sounds great! Let me know what happens!

Tink


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Wow tonight was rough for some reason. I was leaving work and on the way home I saw all the places me and my wife used to go to and set off the emotional bomb! I just sat here and cried for a while and all that good stuff:(

Feel better now and I think this makes me stronger to DB that much harder. Thisis the worst pain I have ever been through in my life and wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy!!

Have a good night everyone I need to get some sleep!!


Stay strong!


Ted


I am-33
W- 33
Married- 8yrs
T- 12yrs
D15
S6
Seperated 3/23/08(not legally)

"dum vita est, spes est"




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Aw Jonzy, ask her out for dinner.


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Sheesh so much for asking her out to dinner or anything. This is the W weekend to have my son and she called to see if I had him. I told her no that he is with D. She got upset and as we were getting off the phone I ma d!$k!!! WTF is that all about?

Do I even attempt to respond to her to find out what is bothering her or do I leave it alone? She had no reason at all to be upset, she knew it was her weekend!!!

Next question do I let this blow over for a while and not ask her to do anything?

This really P's me off to no end when I did absolutely nothing wrong except for answering the phone!!! I am going to the bars tonight with friends I am so P'ed off right now!!!


Ted


I am-33
W- 33
Married- 8yrs
T- 12yrs
D15
S6
Seperated 3/23/08(not legally)

"dum vita est, spes est"




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