Keep it up! Eventually she will react. How that will be is impossible to tell, but you will be a better person!
people have told me "you look great" it's nice to hear , good for self esteem... but i am not even close to where i want to be, regardless, i have learnt from my past, and have ALOT of future to go (heck i am only 37).
How she will react is impossible to tell.. her profile on lavalife said something to the effect of "want someone honest"
Well see my quote below? That is the "new me" outlook ... i follow it to a tee, even as tough as it can be..