Quoting jethro: I think maybe I have to do my damnedest to stop thinking about her A and concentrate on what we are doing today. I just get hung-up when I think that she had a full-blown A for over a year...a year she also put me through hell. jethro
I went through hell earlier this year, most of us have! I know it's hard not to think about - but that will ease over time. If you need to vent, do it HERE. Not on the wife, not asking questions over and over. She is with YOU, she is not with OM. Remember that.
