I know what you mean about drama getting the most traffic. I've seen it other places as well. I think it's that more active topics always appear at the top, so they get clicked. Besides, we can't help it...we want to help people, even when it doesn't seem to get through. When the person "gets it", there isn't as much to advise anymore. Take it as a sign that you are doing as well as possible. The sad thing is wasting time on certain individuals when there are so many hurting people interested in actually trying something different.
AD, the truth is that I think your course is pretty well set. You are doing great with your daughter and you are doing the things you need to do in terms of being the man that she SHOULD come back to. That's all you can do...she's chosen the more destructive route that involves OM...everything else is secondary. You can only give it time and distance. She has to implode on her own. You take care of yourself and your daughter until then. Be kind and friendly to her without being outwardly hung up on her.
Me
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
