Hey Phoenix -Good point. The truth is that I would like a separation right now - just not the legal one where we end up selling the house.
I am not pushing counseling at all. I don't even ask her about it. She brought up her IC session to me the other day and I went about my biz. Her parents are another story - but I am staying out of it. They asked her the other day to stay in their house and they would move out for the time being and she replied that she didn't want to leave her house. I believe that is because of the neighbors - not us.
You make good points - I don't know how to get there yet.
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"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
