AS a bb addict, I'm relieved your experiment went that way .
You know, I think You may have it...it's something that I've not done yet too, but LL's post is making me think.
I don't ask ?'s about the A, per se any more...but the one-year anniversary of Bomb#1 is right around the corner. Of late it's been more that things "remind" me of the hurt, and I'll say so if CJ asks.
Then he says something to the effect of "we need to look to the future, not the past!". That really irked me. As it does you. I'm TRYING to get there, just have a little emotional garbage to sort out!!!
So yeah, it's easy to get resentful...but not particularly productive .
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