Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Maybe letting her plan it is the right way to go?


I think asking for her input first is a GREAT idea! \:\) Let's her know her feelings and thoughts on what she'd like to do for the 4th are important and valued, too.

(((((Jeff))))) \:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell