Quote: So you never did tell us, was your break from the BB helpful at all???
Well, yes and no. I don't feel as entrenched in thinking about R-stuff so much; however, I find the BB grounding because others let me know when I'm off-base and need to regroup. (thanks LL and DFB)
After posting I did feel a bit better because now I know what I need to do...STOP DISCUSSING HER A. At this point, it really does neither one of us any good because I find out about more of the lies that have been told to me, and I continue to have to reset my thoughts on the whole sordid mess.
I think I'm confusing the A with our R...and although they are related, one is dead and the other renewed. And thus, my focus should not be on what is dead. Right?
