Sounds like that has given you some interesting insight.
Your W will eventually get to a happy place like SIL. I hope it is while there is still a chance for your M. Lol.
In any case, you sound good. Stay detached, let her make her own mistakes, focus on yourself for a while, keep up the great GAL activities, and keep your PMA up!
(((jon)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
