Our contact if very limited now. Yesterday we had a short text convo followed by a quick call because she didn't pay for preschool and a few days ago she told me she had. So I get a bill from Ds school for the whole month. Obviously she's very irresponsible. MIL wasn't happy as well. Later they talked and MIL said I told W that she had to pay the whole thing and that she was crying. My bro was over as well, so I showed her my text that said "I'll pay half if you pay half". Proved W to be a liar....nice.
Then today, I get an unusual text. W asked if she could have Abby for the evening and "is that okay?". I was amazed, like she wants to borrow her. Where is her head? I just responded. "You are her mom and you really don't need to ASK?" Wow. She is really detached from her old life. She doesn't talk to any of her old friends....just the new ones (who knew what was going on). She even has a new friend from work she's hanging with. Must be shame, etc.
One thing I noticed on these boards is how many new people post on here and get little responses or almost none. Yet, some threads (with crazy drama and that hardly listen to advice) get all kinds of responses and locked threads. Guess Boards mirror life.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
