My fingers are crossed for you and your H on the job. I feel that they have a much harder time getting over the OW if they are working with them and have contact thru work, as I well know.
I don't think that my H is having to much contact with OW either but my boundry was none outside of any work issues and he i feel is stepping on that one as you have read in my thread.
Im glad for you.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez