Sounds a lot like this guy. He doesn't want to participate in anything. She is so full of life and he is not. honestly, I don't blame her. And like your friend she is not out trolling or anything. She hasn't even tried to date since leaving. He tells the other friends what has been said here that she is having a MLC but I am sorry, I don't think so and even if she is, I really can't blame her. I really feel for her in being stifled.

Yeah, mine wasn't like that either. He would want to APPEAR to be the nice guy so there is no way he would let that happen. LOL!

It really does show you that there really is two sides, doesn't it and how we can actually see the other side and see how it would be for the WAS. Of course, there are extremes and the cheaters and baddies but in some cases I can really understand that need and want to be free.