Update: Yesterday my W broke down several times, yelling, crying, screaming about everything. She finally admitted to the A (actually used it as a weapon) and really tried to obtain sympathy for her situation in that she is in love and can't be with the OM and will be broke after the D. She really wants me to support her and the OM post D. She wanted to to be concerned that the OM may dump her because of the financial sitaution. We finally came to terms today. If she signs it then the D will be done by mid August. I would drag this out to go thru mediation and or litigation but why? She is not going anywhere but to the OM. If and when she gets over him then we can look at this again. I am ok with it all. I got everything that I wanted in the D.
