I feel that it was a card for her and when he does stuff like this I can tell as he gets very lovey toward me, and he did last night.
What to do
My H does the same thing. He was overly lovey to me and tons of ILY's only to find out he had been with OW or talked to her! Must be the guilt or them trying to keep you happy so you won't investigate.
I think the sickest thing was when I was 4 weeks from giving birth to our daughter H disappeared and nobody could find him. We thought he was in an accident. When he came home he was so sweet and loving. Come to find out a few hours later that he spent the time having sex with OW!
I am not saying your H is doing that at all, but when this stuff is in your mind its hard to get over.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!