Okay, Tal, I DOUBLE DARE THEM!! come on KAW and Jethro!
Seriously Jethro, I have to say I'm with you two. My H says ILY every day, maybe more than once, but it's the same kind (mostly) of ILY's that he gave me before and partly during the Affairs!
I wonder about the veracity and depth of his "love" too. I wonder about my own sometimes.
Of course it's now "anniversary time" for me...with one year since A#2 started, and went on....YUCK!! All I can say Jethro is that it DOES get easier to deal with, and then WHAM!!! after weeks or months of "almost forgetting" there it is in your face again....at least that was my experience this weekend.
But each time the upset is less, the aftermath shorter. Healing does happen, be patient.
Anger and resentment DO surface...in fact it took a while for me to even get there, there was so much HURT first.
