You NEVER know. Things change. Sometimes for the better. It happens. I really believe that if your wife came to you tonight and said that she wanted to come home, you might let her. We know you would do it, with boundaries, but you would do it.
Because we know you still love her.
But we see the terrible issues that she has. For a mother to not have that mother instinct. Man, that has to be hard. For the two of you to not be on the same page on this, well I don't think that I would want her around, either.
Everyone's sitch is hard. Just like I know my sitch ain't as bad as others. You sure have a good one, though. Just like I do.
You are going to be better for it. All of us will. And remember, God is always on our side. Sometimes, we just don't recognize it.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 06/25/0804:22 PM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
