Thank her for all the small things she does...and do your best to keep doing it all the time. However, don't go overboard with it, thank her once for something nice, but always thank her when it is deserved.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK