Hi sh- I would think that your H treats you the way he does is because of the guilt and there is probably no deeper meaning...so, if that is the case, is there anything you can do to help alleviate any of his guilt...doubtful. He has to work through it. From what you say, he is probably still just avoiding dealing with anything. I wish there was a way we could get these guys to confront their issues.
Do you and your H ever talk about your M? I am just curious if your H ever said anything about a D. At least your nightmare can't become reality if you aren't divorced.
Keep enjoying your life. Do you and your boys planned this summer?
