Lost,

I would suggest to you that THIS:

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I am a little troubled by WW's latest comments. I know I have heard them before, but I am not sure OM is really a current factor (although what they shared, the "rush" and "intensity" of it all may be).


. . . doesn't jibe with THIS:

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Actions before she went away last week were very positive in my view. When she was home Sunday, something happened to set her off.


I am nearly certain that your wife was with OM. All of her words AND her actions are classic affair "script," and you will continue to see these ups-and-downs so long as she is in contact with him.

It's good to hear that you're not going anywhere. You will, however, need to put the other pieces of your plan in place, or she will either:

1) Totally disrepect you and your boundaries in your own house, and you will be miserable; or

2) She will push her affair further underground, and you will only be delaying the inevitable.

Puppy