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Once she is all moved in the ball is totally in her court and who knows when i will see her. I am anticipating her going silent again for a while while she adjust to all the newness down there but hope she will share bits of info about school and not just call for money or support


JWS, "Act as if", play it by ear, but it sounds like you two are rebuilding your friendship. If after she moves in, I wouldn't think too much about checking in with her a few days later.....no R talk just stuff like how is the apartment/school etc....talk to her about her classes etc. You will be able to tell by her tone if she is enjoying talking to you.

It is good that she knows the military isn't a permanent choice, it will give her much more hope in her dreams together with you.


TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning